Filed 8/5/26 S.R. v. B.N. CA6
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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SIXTH APPELLATE DISTRICT
S.R., H053306
(Santa Clara County
Appellant, Super. Ct. No. 24CP000485)
v.
B.N.,
Respondent.
In this pending parentage action, S.R. appeals after the trial court issued mutual
domestic violence restraining orders (DVROs) against him and B.N.1 The order issuing
mutual DVROs also included a joint legal and physical custody order of the parties’
minor child, with B.N. having supervised visitation with the child three days a week.
S.R. contends the trial court erred by issuing mutual restraining orders and by ordering
joint legal and physical custody of the child. B.N. has not filed a respondent’s brief.
Consequently, we decide the appeal based on the record and the opening brief. (Cal.
Rules of Court, rule 8.220(a)(2).)
For the reasons explained below, we will affirm the trial court’s order issuing
mutual DVROs, and we dismiss as moot S.R.’s appeal from the court’s order of joint
legal and physical custody.
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Because this case involves proceedings under the Domestic Violence Prevention
Act, we refer to the parties by their initials to protect the privacy interests of protected
persons. (Cal. Rules of Court, rule 8.90(b)(1), (11).)
I. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND
S.R. and B.N. had been in a relationship in which they lived together and had one
son together. S.R. and B.N. also each separately had a child before the relationship.
Shortly after S.R. filed a parentage action against B.N., each party filed an
application for a DVRO against the other. At the hearing on the applications, S.R.
testified and called two witnesses. One of these witnesses testified that on one occasion
he saw B.N. repeatedly strike S.R. while S.R. was driving, though the witness did not see
any injuries to S.R. The second witness testified that she received a message from B.N.
with information about S.R.’s medical condition that she considered “kind of random.”
S.R. testified about several incidents that led him to file the DVRO application, including
that B.N. hit his daughter on top of her forehead, B.N. repeatedly allowed their child to
be in contact with her son in violation of an earlier temporary order, B.N. was arrested
regarding a text she sent him, and B.N. placed a “tracker” in their son’s shoe. S.R. also
testified regarding the message B.N. sent about his medical condition, stating that the
condition was “very personal.”
B.N. testified but did not call any other witnesses. She testified that S.R.
“physically attacked” her “maybe eight or nine” times during their relationship, each time
when she found indications of S.R.’s involvement with other women on his phone. She
testified about one instance in which she looked at S.R.’s phone and found text messages
from other women. During this incident, she testified, she took the phone and showed the
messages to S.R., and S.R. responded by grabbing her by her arms, pushing her to the
ground, placing her in a “choke lock,” and kicking her, causing “multiple bruises
everywhere.” She also testified that she disclosed S.R.’s medical condition because
learning of this condition caused her to believe S.R. was having sexual relations with
another woman. B.N. further testified that she owned a handbag collection and S.R. sold
her handbags without her permission. She denied hitting S.R.’s daughter. In response to
questions from the court, B.N. testified that she did not have a “problem” with alcohol
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and had completed a substance abuse program, but the program involved group meetings
and she “mostly just listened.”
The trial court granted both parties’ DVRO applications. The court stated it found
“some credibility issues” with both parties. The court stated it found the testimony by
S.R.’s two witnesses credible, particularly concerning the message about S.R.’s medical
condition because B.N. conceded she sent the message. The court found that this
message amounted to domestic abuse because B.N. sent the message “with the intent to
disturb [S.R.’s] peace and to exact some sort of retaliatory vengeance, I guess, for his acts
of being unfaithful.” The court also found S.R. credible when he testified about B.N.
hitting his daughter, noting B.N.’s “mocking tone” when describing what S.R.’s daughter
allegedly said in the incident and further observing that B.N.’s “whole attitude towards
that interaction was a problem.” The court found credible B.N.’s allegation of abuse or
domestic violence when she confronted S.R. with messages found on his phone, because
while S.R. was “entitled to use some amount of physical force to obtain his phone back,”
the “act of pushing down and the kicking is not a justifiable response.” The court also
noted B.N.’s testimony that S.R. had physically attacked her eight to nine times in total
during their relationship, stating that these acts constituted domestic abuse.
The court stated it assessed this case “with particular attention” to Family Code
section 6305, subdivision (b),2 Penal Code section 836, subdivision (c), and Salmon v.
Salmon (2022) 85 Cal.App.5th 1047 (Salmon).3 The court therefore issued DVROs
against both parties, concluding that “both parties have been dominant aggressors within
the meaning of the law . . . .”
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Unspecified statutory references are to the Family Code.
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The transcript states that the trial court considered Penal Code section 835, but
the references to section 6305, subdivision (b) and the Salmon case indicate the trial court
intended to state that it considered Penal Code section 836.
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The trial court also ordered joint legal and physical custody of the parties’ child,
continuing a previously-outlined parenting plan that involved B.N. having supervised
visitation with the child three days a week for three hours at a time. In issuing this order,
the trial court made a finding under section 3044 that both parties perpetrated domestic
violence against each other.
S.R. timely appealed.
II. DISCUSSION
S.R. challenges both the trial court’s issuance of a DVRO against him and the trial
court’s order of joint legal and physical custody of the parties’ child. Regarding the
DVRO, he argues the court failed to “consider and determine a ‘dominant aggressor’ in
the context of the entire interactions between the parties.” He then argues that the court
abused its discretion in awarding joint legal and joint physical custody because the
court’s ruling was not consistent with an analysis focused on the best interest of the child
and the court’s ruling “just does not make sense” based on the parenting plan the court
approved. We find no abuse of discretion with respect to the DVRO, and we dismiss as
moot S.R.’s appeal from the order of joint legal and physical custody of the parties’ child.
A. Domestic Violence Restraining Orders
1. Legal principles and standards of review
A court may issue a restraining order under the Domestic Violence Prevention Act
(§ 6200 et seq.) “to prevent domestic violence or abuse if the party seeking the order
‘shows, to the satisfaction of the court, reasonable proof of a past act or acts of abuse.’
[Citations.]” (Melissa G. v. Raymond M. (2018) 27 Cal.App.5th 360, 367.) “Abuse”
includes intentionally or recklessly causing or attempting to cause bodily injury, or
placing a person in reasonable apprehension of imminent serious bodily injury to that
person or to another. (§ 6203, subd. (a)(1), (3).) “Abuse” also includes “disturbing the
peace of the other party,” which refers to conduct that “destroys the mental or emotional
calm of the other party.” (§§ 6203, subd. (a)(4), 6320, subd. (c).) “Abuse is not limited
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to the actual infliction of physical injury or assault.” (§ 6203, subd. (b).) “Domestic
violence” is abuse perpetrated against listed persons, including one with whom the
respondent is having or has had a dating relationship. (§ 6211, subd. (c).)
Under section 6305, trial courts must make additional findings before issuing
mutual DVROs to “ensure that a mutual order is the product of the careful evaluation of a
thorough record and not simply the result of the moving party yielding to the other
party’s importunities or the court deciding that a mutual order is an expedient response to
joint claims of abuse.” (Conness v. Satram (2004) 122 Cal.App.4th 197, 204,
fn. omitted.) The trial court must “make[] detailed findings of fact indicating that both
parties acted as a primary aggressor and that neither party acted primarily in self-
defense.” (§ 6305, subd. (a)(2).) In making this determination, “the court shall consider
the provisions concerning dominant aggressors set forth in” Penal Code section 836,
subdivision (c)(3). (§ 6305, subd. (b).) That Penal Code provision provides in relevant
part: “The dominant aggressor is the person determined to be the most significant, rather
than the first, aggressor. In identifying the dominant aggressor, an officer shall
consider (A) the intent of the law to protect victims of domestic violence from continuing
abuse, (B) the threats creating fear of physical injury, (C) the history of domestic violence
between the persons involved, and (D) whether either person involved acted in self-
defense.” (Pen. Code, § 836, subd. (c)(3).)
We review for abuse of discretion the trial court’s order granting a DVRO and, to
the extent we are called upon to review the court’s factual findings, we do so for
substantial evidence. (Curcio v. Pels (2020) 47 Cal.App.5th 1, 12.) “In reviewing the
evidence, we examine the entire record to determine whether there is any substantial
evidence—contradicted or uncontradicted—to support the trial court’s findings.” (Ibid.)
“We must accept as true all evidence supporting the trial court’s findings, resolving every
conflict in favor of the judgment. [Citation.] We do not determine credibility or reweigh
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the evidence. [Citation.] If substantial evidence supports the judgment, reversal is not
warranted even if facts exist that would support a contrary finding. [Citation.]” (Ibid.)
2. Analysis
The trial court did not abuse its discretion in issuing mutual DVROs. Substantial
evidence supports the trial court’s finding that S.R. engaged in abuse or domestic
violence toward B.N. S.R. does not contend otherwise.
Instead, S.R. argues the trial court did not properly conclude under section 6305
that both parties were “dominant aggressors.” He contends that the court “did not
compare the conduct of the parties to determine which of them was the dominant
aggressor under the totality of the circumstances in their relationship,” but instead
“evaluated each allegation separately, made independent findings that each party had
committed domestic violence and determined that each was a ‘primary aggressor’ and
issued a mutual restraining order as a result.” The record does not demonstrate that the
trial court abused its discretion in this regard.
The trial court complied with section 6305’s requirement that it not issue mutual
DVROs without making the required factual findings that both parties acted as a primary
aggressor and neither party acted primarily in self-defense. (Id., subd. (a)(2).) The trial
court analyzed the allegations of abuse and domestic violence made by both S.R. and
B.N., and it made credibility determinations in finding that these allegations were
supported by substantial evidence. The trial court also determined that these instances
were not justified in self-defense, including finding S.R.’s violence toward B.N. was “not
a justifiable response.” Having analyzed each instance of alleged domestic violence or
abuse, the trial court concluded that both parties “have been dominant aggressors within
the meaning of the law,” and it issued mutual DVROs accordingly.
S.R. relies on Salmon, supra, 85 Cal.App.5th 1047, but Salmon does not support
his argument that the trial court improperly performed the section 6305 analysis. In
Salmon, the trial court issued a DVRO against the husband but denied the husband’s
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petition for a DVRO against the wife. (Salmon, supra, at p. 1052.) The Court of Appeal
affirmed, concluding that section 6305 “expressly permits the trial court to weigh the acts
of the parties to determine if one should be considered the dominant aggressor before
issuing a mutual restraining order . . . .” (Salmon, supra, at p. 1052.) The reviewing
court held that “the plain words of the statute clearly contemplate the trial court will:
weigh the acts of the parties; determine whether one of the parties should be considered
the primary or dominant aggressor; and issue a mutual restraining order only in the event
neither party can fairly be characterized as the primary aggressor.” (Id. at p. 1059.) The
Court of Appeal then held that the trial court was not required to make such detailed
factual findings in declining to issue a mutual restraining order. (Id. at p. 1060.)
Here, the trial court complied with section 6305’s requirements, including
weighing the acts of the parties and determining that both parties were dominant
aggressors using the criteria outlined in Penal Code section 836. Salmon does not require
any findings beyond what section 6305 mandates. Thus, the trial court did not abuse its
discretion in issuing mutual DVROs.
B. Custody Order
S.R. alleges the court failed to compare the conduct of the parties in ordering joint
legal and physical custody. He cites evidence that B.N. sewed a tracker into the child’s
shoe, abused alcohol, and committed domestic abuse against S.R.’s daughter.
At the DVRO hearing, both B.N.’s counsel and the trial court referred to an earlier
order by an “all-purpose judge” that affected custody, and the trial court noted that the
issue that led to that order was not raised in the DVRO hearing and “remains somewhat
unresolved.” The record does not reveal the precise nature of that earlier order. The trial
court at the DVRO hearing directed S.R.’s counsel to restrict argument to “what you
think the timeshare ought to be,” and at the conclusion of the hearing, the trial court
recognized: “There are all kinds of issues that need to be resolved outside . . . of this
domestic violence restraining order context.”
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Because the record indicates that the trial court believed further custody
proceedings were appropriate, we requested supplemental briefing addressing whether
the portion of the appeal challenging the DVRO custody order has been rendered moot by
any subsequent custody order issued in this matter. S.R. responded by conceding that his
appeal of the DVRO custody order is now moot. He stated that “[t]he issue of custody in
this matter has continued to be litigated in the trial court,” and he attached an order issued
several months after the DVRO hearing in which the court awarded sole legal and
physical custody of the parties’ child to S.R.
We accept S.R.’s concession that his appeal from the trial court’s custody order at
the DVRO hearing is moot. That custody order is no longer in effect, and S.R. has since
been granted sole legal and physical custody of the parties’ child. S.R.’s challenge is
therefore moot because “events transpire[d] which prevent the appellate court from
granting any effectual relief.” (Lester v. Lennane (2000) 84 Cal.App.4th 536, 566.)
III. DISPOSITION
The mutual domestic violence restraining orders against appellant S.R. and
respondent B.N. are affirmed. Appellant S.R.’s appeal from the temporary custody and
visitation order issued at the domestic violence restraining order hearing is dismissed. As
respondent made no appearance in this appeal, there are no costs to award.
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Greenwood, P. J.
WE CONCUR:
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Danner, J.
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Bromberg, J.
H053306 S.R. v. B.N.


